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The Open Invitation: How to Use an Open-Ended Thrusting Masturbator

An invitation, properly issued, should leave room for the guest to bring something of their own. The Open Invitation follows the etiquette. It is a handheld, open-ended masturbator that thrusts and vibrates on its own, with three speeds of each, and its open design leaves room for company.

Thrust, Vibration, or Both

Thrusting provides the rhythm; vibration adds a steady hum beneath it. Try each separately at first, then layer them. Three speeds of each give nine combinations, which ought to keep even the most fastidious occupied.

Preparation

Charge it by USB. Apply water-based lubricant generously inside the sleeve and to yourself; with an open-ended design, a little extra is never wasted. Keep a towel nearby.

Using It

Begin at rest

Insert while it is switched off, then start the lowest thrusting speed and let it do the work while you hold it steady.

Layer in vibration

Add the lowest vibrating speed and build gradually.

Try it with a partner

Because it is open-ended, a partner can hold it, kiss or touch you at the same time, or use it as part of foreplay. It is a generous piece in every sense.

Safety

  • Use water-based lubricant.
  • Stop if anything feels uncomfortable, and do not use on broken or irritated skin.
  • Keep the device away from hair to avoid catching.

Care

  • The open end makes rinsing straightforward. Clean the sleeve with warm water and mild soap or toy cleaner, keeping water away from the charging point and controls.
  • Dry fully before storing.
  • Recharge via USB.

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Frequently Asked Questions

What does open-ended mean?

The sleeve is open at both ends, which makes it easier to clean and to use with a partner.

How many speeds does it have?

Three thrusting speeds and three vibrating speeds, which can be used together.

Is it rechargeable?

Yes, it is USB rechargeable.

How big is it?

It is 20.5 cm long and 10 cm wide.

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