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The Tireless Valet: How to Use a Thrusting Male Masturbator

A good valet, the Marquis maintains, anticipates. He has your coat ready before you reach for it and never once asks what time you will be home. The Tireless Valet brings the same discretion to more private matters. It thrusts and vibrates on its own, so your hands are free and your only decision is the pace.

Before You Begin

Warm the sleeve

Run the removable sleeve under warm water for a minute or two, or let it sit in a bowl of warm water, then dry the outside. A sleeve at body temperature feels far more convincing than one fresh from a drawer.

Lubricant

Apply a water-based lubricant both to yourself and inside the opening. Water-based is kindest to the TPE sleeve and the simplest to rinse away. Add more whenever the sensation turns from glide to grip.

Finding the Pace

Press and hold the power button to switch on. Use the plus and minus buttons to move through its seven functions, three speeds and four patterns, and begin at the slowest. The thrusting motion is the point of the device, so let it do the work: hold the body steady, keep a relaxed grip, and resist the urge to move it yourself.

The lightning-bolt button engages turbo. It is best kept in reserve; use it as a finale rather than an overture. Some gentlemen enjoy edging, rising almost to the point of no return and then slowing to the gentlest setting, two or three times before allowing the turbo its moment.

For Two

A device that does the work is a fine thing to hand to a partner. Let them hold it, choose the patterns and decide when the turbo button is earned. It can also be enjoyed during foreplay while you attend to them, a fair exchange by any measure.

A Note on Weight and Position

The Tireless Valet has some heft, so lying back with it resting on your thigh or a cushion is more comfortable than holding it aloft. Find a position that keeps your wrist relaxed.

Cleaning and Care

  • Remove the sleeve after every use and wash it inside and out with warm water and mild soap or toy cleaner.
  • Do not submerge the motor body; wipe it clean with a damp cloth.
  • Let the sleeve air-dry fully before refitting, to keep it fresh.
  • A light dusting of cornflour or renewing powder on the dry sleeve helps preserve its soft texture.
  • Recharge by USB.

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Frequently Asked Questions

What lubricant should I use?

A water-based lubricant, which suits the TPE sleeve and rinses away easily.

How many settings does it have?

Seven functions, made up of three speeds and four patterns, plus a turbo button for extra speed.

Can the sleeve be removed for cleaning?

Yes. The sleeve is removable and should be washed after every use and dried fully.

How is it charged?

By USB.

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