There is a gesture, a single crooked finger, that has summoned waiters, lovers and errant spaniels since time immemorial. The Beckoning reproduces it in silicone. Its curved head makes a slow come-hither motion against the prostate, accompanied by vibration, while a wearable ring keeps everything exactly where it should be.
What the Come-Hither Motion Does
The prostate sits a few centimetres inside, towards the front of the body. Rather than vibrating at it, The Beckoning's head moves in a rhythmic, beckoning stroke, much as a practised finger would. For many men it produces a deeper, more rolling sensation than vibration alone, and the two can be combined across its ten functions.
Preparation
Choose a time when you are relaxed and will not be disturbed. A warm shower helps, and some prefer to douche beforehand for peace of mind. Trim fingernails and keep a towel nearby.
Fitting It
Lubricant first
Use a generous amount of water-based anal lubricant on the massager and around the entrance. The insertable length is 12.68 cm with a 3.68 cm diameter, so take your time.
Insert slowly
Lying on your side with knees drawn up is a comfortable start. Breathe out as you introduce the tip, curved towards the front of the body, and let the body accept it gradually.
Then the ring
Once the massager is in place, fit the ring around the base of the penis and scrotum, or the penis alone, whichever is more comfortable. It holds the device securely for hands-free play. It should feel snug, never tight.
Using the Remote
Switch on at the lowest function and let the motion begin gently. The wireless remote lets you move through the functions without reaching behind you, which is a considerable improvement on contortion. Handed to a partner, it becomes something more interesting still: they set the tempo, you surrender to it. Agree a clear word for "stop" before you begin, and keep the remote within reach of both of you.
Safety
- Use water-based lubricant only with silicone.
- Stop if you feel sharp pain; never force insertion.
- Wear the ring for no more than about twenty to thirty minutes, and remove it at once if you feel numbness, coldness or pain.
- Anyone with circulation concerns or on blood-thinning medication should consult a doctor before using a ring.
Care
- It is splash-proof to IPX5: wash with warm water and mild soap or toy cleaner without submerging, then dry thoroughly.
- Recharge via its magnetic USB cable.
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Frequently Asked Questions
What is a come-hither prostate massager?
A massager whose head moves in a beckoning stroke against the prostate, similar to a crooked finger, rather than relying on vibration alone. The Beckoning combines both.
What is the ring for?
The wearable ring holds the massager securely in place so it can be enjoyed hands-free.
Can a partner control it?
Yes. It comes with a wireless remote, so a partner can change the functions.
Is it waterproof?
It is IPX5 splash-proof and charges by magnetic USB cable.